And this photo, which Kate Beckinsale uploaded to her Instagram, is clearly the latter.
In it, she is dressed as a human-sized penis.
It's not clear why she is wearing an inflatable penis, where the photo was taken, or what would possess an actress usually known for her impeccable sense of style and polish (the woman sits front row at Dior, for God's sake) to climb into such a costume.
But none of this matters.
What matters is the caption underneath the photo. (Just a girl trying to make it in a man's world) Which is everything.
We salute you Kate.