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Jessie J Has Opened Up About Her Split With Channing Tatum

We’ve all been there… - by Elyssa Kostopoulos
  • 03 Jan 2020
Jessie J Has Opened Up About Her Split With Channing Tatum

After more than a year of dating, we were given the upsetting news that Channing Tatum and singer Jessie J had gone their separate ways towards the end of last year. Only a month after their split, the internet was up to their usual tricks, already finding the Magic Mike star on Raya—an exclusive dating app that typically attracts actors, artists, and creative types. 

Despite this discovery, we were yet to hear from Jessie J on the matter – but now, that has all changed. Taking to Instagram, the performer has opened up about the power of healing post-breakup, uploading an image of herself overlooking a city landscape from above as she shared some words of advice and reassurance in the lengthy post.

She wrote, “Go somewhere where your world feels and looks small. Gain perspective. Lay in the sea. Walk to the top of a mountain. Drive to view point in a park. Look up at the stars. This isn’t to make you feel like your problems or sadness or the feelings you feel are not valid but to know you are NEVER Alone.”

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Time. Time is the gift. Time is the fear. Time is the magic. Time is the memories. Time is the change. Time is the pain. Time is the healing. Zoom out. Go somewhere where your world feels and looks small. Gain perspective. Lay in the sea. Walk to the top of a mountain. Drive to view point in a park. Look up at the stars. This isn't to make you feel like your problems or sadness or the feelings you feel are not valid but to know you are NEVER Alone. Billions of people around the world. Are just trying to smile and mean it. Are actively working out who they are. Are missing someone they have lost. Are feeling worthless. YOU ARE LOVED. We are all trying to love and accept the stories in our lives that make us desperately want to fast forward or rewind time. When all we have is the now. The very moment. With the puzzle pieces of life sometimes put together in the wrong places. They can hurt until tended to. Don't let past or current trauma define who you are. You can walk away from it. Take the time to put those puzzle pieces in the right place. Tend to YOU. Be vulnerable. Be there for YOU. Be there for people around you and lift each other up. Break the cycle. Be open. Talk. Be there for yourself. Recognise the patterns of behaviour you have that can cause some of the hurt. Look inwards. Look outwards. Walk away from parts of yourself and people or situations that trigger parts of you that are unhealthy. Be honest. Sending LOVE to anyone who feels alone. We need you around. You are stronger than you know, and are capable of finding your happy time again. Talk to someone who can give you professional advice. Honour your pain to be heard by the right ears. It's your TIME, so take your TIME ❤️ 1-800-273-8255 - National Suicide Prevention Lifeline ✨

“Billions of people around the world. Are just trying to smile and mean it. Are actively working out who they are. Are missing someone they have lost. Are feeling worthless. YOU ARE LOVED. We are all trying to love and accept the stories in our lives that make us desperately want to fast forward or rewind time.

“When all we have is the now. The very moment. With the puzzle pieces of life sometimes put together in the wrong places. They can hurt until tended to. Don’t let past or current trauma define who you are. You can walk away from it. Take the time to put those puzzle pieces in the right place.”

Pretty sound words of advice, we must say. Whether they were about Channing or not, I guess we’ll never know. Either way, we should all take a leaf out of Jessie J’s book as we start the new year.

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