"I'm going to be extremely blunt, I will never ever put someone on a pedestal who hasn't earned the right to be there," the legal secretary shared. "My approach was a wild card, you're used to watching women automatically fall for The Bachelor and scramble to profess their feelings, vying to be the last one standing to claim their (man) prize. Obviously, I was a different kind of woman thrown into the mix this season."
Vannessa added, "If my experience has shown just one person that’s it’s ok to be completely yourself, to back yourself, not put up with bullshit and stay true to you when faced with adversity, then for me everything was worth it. I am so grateful for this experience Nick just simply wasn’t the person for me."
This article originally appeared on InStyle Australia