A palliative paediatrician in South Africa has shared the wisdom and wishes of children with terminal cancer in a series of tweets that have gone viral for all the right reasons.
Cape Town’s Alastair McAlpine told the BBC that he chose to share the incredibly heartwarming messages in light of the negativity he often saw on social media.
“For an assignment, I asked some of my terminal paediatric palliative care patients what they had enjoyed in life, and what gave it meaning. Kids can be so wise, y’know. Here are some of the responses,” he posted on Twitter.
“MANY wished they had spent less time worrying about what others thought of them, and valued people who just treated them ‘normally’. ‘My real friends didn’t care when my hair fell out.’ ‘Jane came to visit after the surgery and didn’t even notice the scar!’”
Read the incredible thread below.
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For an assignment, I asked some of my terminal paediatric palliative care patients what they had enjoyed in life, and what gave it meaning. Kids can be so wise, y'know. Here are some of the responses (Thread).
— Alastair McAlpine, MD (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018
First:
— Alastair McAlpine, MD (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018
NONE said they wished they'd watched more TV
NONE said they should've spent more time on Face Book
NONE said they enjoyed fighting with others
NONE enjoyed hospital
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MANY mentioned their pets:
— Alastair McAlpine, MD (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018
'I love Rufus, his funny bark makes me laugh.'
'I love when Ginny snuggles up to me at night and purrs'
'I was happiest riding Jake on the beach.'
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MANY mentioned their parents, often expressing worry or concern:
— Alastair McAlpine, MD (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018
'Hope mum will be ok. She seems sad.'
'Dad mustn't worry. He'll see me again soon.'
'God will take care of my mum and dad when I'm gone'
/3
ALL of them loved ice-cream.
— Alastair McAlpine, MD (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018
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ALL of them loved books or being told stories, especially by their parents:
— Alastair McAlpine, MD (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018
'Harry Potter made me feel brave.'
'I love stories in space!'
'I want to be a great detective like Sherlock Holmes when I'm better!'
Folks, read to your kids! They love it. /5
MANY wished they had spent less time worrying about what others thought of them, and valued people who just treated them 'normally'.
— Alastair McAlpine, MD (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018
'My real friends didn't care when my hair fell out.'
'Jane came to visit after the surgery and didn't even notice the scar!' /6
Take home message:
— Alastair McAlpine, MD (@AlastairMcA30) February 1, 2018
Be kind. Read more books. Spend time with your family. Crack jokes. Go to the beach. Hug your dog. Tell that special person you love them.
These are the things these kids wished they could've done more. The rest is details.
Oh… and eat ice-cream. /End
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McAlpine told the Internaitonal Business Times that he was overwhelmed by the amazing responses to his tweets; his initial post has more than 20,000 retweets.
“I did not expect the reaction. I was just tired of all the negativity and wanted to tweet something that I thought would allow people to be moved and inspired,” he said. “Had no idea it would have such a reaction. It feels overwhelming!”
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