The Best Gender Inclusive Sex Toys To Make Pleasure More Accessible

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Feeling that build, ecstasy and release of pleasure is amazing, because most of us will get to experience at some stage in our lives. From a gentle touch or stroke to full-blown penetrative sex, there are so many different ways to experience it if they choose.

Even better news, sex tech has come a long way since pink vibrators and blue cock rings. Many of today’s best sex toys are designed to be inclusive of different gender identities, so that more of us can access the joy of self-pleasure or partnered pleasure.

While much of the sex education we were given as children was very mainstream and blinkered – often making LGBTQIA+ people feel on the outside – there is no reason that needs to continue into adult life.

Let yourself explore what is out there, there’s never been a better time to invest in the sex toy that feels right for you.

The Best Gender Inclusive Sex Toys



The Double Entendre

from $95 at Frenchie

Best for: G-Spot

Designed for solo use or with a partner, this bendy G-Spot vibrator can be bent and shaped to explore many different erogenous spots. Although do note, any vibrator without a flared base should not be used for anal play.

Key features:

  • Dual Motor’s with 4 speed and 6 different pleasure modes
  • Designed for solo or use with a partner
  • Flexible and Bendable
  • Medical grade soft silicone

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Hitachi Magic Wand Rechargable Personal Massager

from $260 at Amazon

Best for: Wand Vibrator

Before Magic Wand was a sex toy, it was simply a personal massager. This is the OG wand that is known for deep rumbly vibrations you can feel throughout your body. The wide shape of the head means it can be used to stimulate many different kids of erogenous zones, and it has lots of settings so it can go as gentle, or as hard, as you need.

Key features:

  • Powerful Motor
  • Silicone Head
  • Cordless Design
  • Includes Charger

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Satisfyer Endless Fun Rechargeable Couple’s Vibrator

from $79.99 at Wild Secrets

Best For: Couples

Talk about fun for everyone! This gender-neutral designed vibrator is made for use in a couple. The U-shaped head can be rotated in different positions and used to stimulate a penis, balls or nipples, while the handle is suitable for vaginal or anal penetration.

Key features:

  • Suitable for solo female or male use
  • Perfect for hetero or same-sex couples
  • Vaginal, anal, nipple, testicle & shaft stimulation
  • 32 internal &/or external position possibilities

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Lovehoney Beginner’s Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit

from $54.95 at Lovehoney

Best For: Strap Ons

No matter what body you have, pegging can be a fun way to pleasure your partner with penetrative sex. This harness is perfect for beginners, with adjustable straps to suit different body shapes.

It also comes with a smooth 5-inch silicone dildo and three interchangeable O-rings that can be used with different dildos, offering a wider array of customisation.

Key features:

  • Adjustable strap-on harness set with 5-inch dildo for first-time strap-on or pegging play
  • Machine-washable harness is adjustable between 18-68 inches
  • 3 interchangeable O-rings can be used with different dildos for versatility
  • Sleek silicone dildo is curved to stimulate G-spots and prostates

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Lily 3

$119 at LELO

This mini egg-shaped vibrator might be small, but it is mighty. Elegant and intimate, this vibe can be used against an array of zones for a little extra vibe and stimulation. Perfect for use on your own or in a couple, it’s so well designed that you could almost leave it on display.

Key features:

  • Compact and discreet design
  • LILY™ 3 offers ten different vibration patterns
  • Enjoy unlimited climaxes anytime and anyplace, including the bath or the shower

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