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6 Australian Couples Share Their Heart-Warming Love Stories

This is what romance looks like in 2019

Dina Broadhurst, 43, Artist, and Max Shepherd, 27, Senior Credit Adviser 

When Max collected a piece of artwork from Dina in March last year, he wasnโ€™t expecting to also pick up a girlfriend. โ€œWhen I met Dina, I was quite taken aback. Sheโ€™s quirky and cool,โ€ he says. Having just come out of a relationship, Dina also wasnโ€™t on the hunt for a partner. โ€œI hadnโ€™t heard of Max on the scene, so it was really nice to meet someone different โ€“ even though it was the last thing I was looking for,โ€ explains Dina, who has a 12-year-old son, Leo, from a previous relationship.

โ€œSince Dina decided she was ready, weโ€™ve pretty much been inseparable,โ€ gushes Max, who says heโ€™s proud of dating an older woman. Their 16-year age gap doesnโ€™t bother Dina either, who says sheโ€™s โ€œimmature at heartโ€. She adds, โ€œYou can have problems in a partnership even if youโ€™re the same age. I think about ageing as a personal journey. You just have to embrace it.โ€

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Emma Bosley, 30, Fashion Designer & Stylist, and Ange Yu, Model & Marketer

In true millennial fashion, Emma and Angeโ€™s love story started via Instagram. โ€œI was working at a cafe and Em was a regular. The sta used to play a game called outfit of the day and Em always won,โ€ Ange explains. โ€œI thought she was really straight [heterosexual], but we had a rapport, so I slid into her DMs on Instagram.โ€

Emma was stoked to get the message. โ€œI had a crush on Ange, which is why I went into the cafe often,โ€ she admits, despite not being sure if Ange was interested in women. โ€œAfter our first date, it became apparent the feeling was mutual.โ€

Two months in, they solidified their relationship on a trip to Tokyo. โ€œWe went to Disneyland and it was really cute,โ€ says Emma. โ€œAnd we didnโ€™t kill each other,โ€ Ange adds.

With an international holiday successfully ticked off, the couple then took the next big step of coming out to their families. โ€œI had trouble coming out to my nearest and dearest, but Em helped me through it. She was the first partner I wanted my family to get to know,โ€ explains Ange.

Set to celebrate their three-year anniversary in March, the couple say their connection is still on the up. โ€œI feel like Iโ€™m more attracted to Ange now than when we first met,โ€ says Emma. โ€œShe has invigorated me. I love her positivity, creativity, and of course her physical attributes, like the mullet.โ€

Not to mention all the LOLs. โ€œEm has an amazing sense of humour โ€“ weโ€™re always cackling together,โ€ explains Ange. โ€œSheโ€™s my best friend.โ€

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Jessica Smith, 34, Paralympian & Author, and Hamid Salamati, 29, Commercial Director 

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โ€œYou look pretty, Mummy,โ€ coos Ayla when her mum emerges on set, dressed in a beautiful gown. Itโ€™s an almost-identical black version of Jessicaโ€™s wedding dress, which she wore to marry her husband Hamid in an intimate ceremony in Western Australia four years ago. โ€œI wanted a traditional wedding dress that was also respectful to Islam culture,โ€ explains Jessica, who was raised Catholic and converted to Islam before the wedding. โ€œHamidโ€™s parents had expressed their wishes for me to convert; however it wasnโ€™t something that was forced upon me. It was a decision I made based on love.โ€

Respect has long been a driving force in Jessica and Hamidโ€™s connection. โ€œSheโ€™s very well accomplished, but itโ€™s the way she carries herself,โ€ Hamid says of Jessica, who was born missing her left arm and represented Australia in swimming at the 2004 Paralympic Games. โ€œOne of the things that initially attracted me to Jess โ€“ and I said it on our first date โ€“ was that she was strong and independent.โ€

When they first met during a night out in Brisbane, Jessica admits she was taken aback by Hamidโ€™s โ€œGlaswegian accent and Middle Eastern good looksโ€. Yet as the days of new romance have developed into the deeper sense of fulfilment that comes with creating a family, her understanding of love has changed. โ€œYou can have lust, but love is about being able to respect each other when times are difficult.โ€

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Tutti Bennett, 68, Wife & Mother, and Paul Bennett, 71, Artist

When Paul first saw Tutti across the room at a party 42 years ago, โ€œit was like the heavens opened โ€“ there was thunder and lightning,โ€ he says. โ€œThe magnetism was incredible. There was nothing I could do, except be drawn into the aura of this amazing-looking woman.โ€ The cosmic connection was mutual. After their first date, Tutti told her mother, โ€œIf I marry anyone, Iโ€™m marrying this guy.โ€

Having spent more than four decades together, the obvious spark and synergy between the pair is still there. โ€œWeโ€™re a perfect fit,โ€ gushes Tutti. โ€œWe fit like a glove,โ€ nods Paul.

During their four decades of marriage, the couple has had two daughters (Cecily-Anna, 37, and Sonia, 33), climbed Mount Kinabalu in Malaysia and faced down cancer. โ€œWhen Tutti was diagnosed with breast cancer several years ago, she was the most incredible inspiration to our family โ€“ and to others. I never heard her complain once when she was ill; she was stoic and absolutely amazing,โ€ says Paul, who was by Tuttiโ€™s side every step of the way. While sheโ€™s now fully recovered, Paul still ensures the love of his life is well looked after. โ€œHe brings me a cup of tea every morning in bed, without which I wouldnโ€™t get up. Iโ€™d be a sloth till the end of my days,โ€ explains Tutti, laughing.

So, morning tea rituals aside, whatโ€™s the secret to a happy marriage? โ€œGood therapy,โ€ says Paul. โ€œAnd lots of laughs.โ€

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Natalie, 43, Journalist, and Nathan Bridgewater, 44, Builder & Pastor

Nathan Bridgewater remembers the feeling of all-consuming first love well. He first met Natalie at a party in Sydney in 1995 when they were 20 and 19, respectively. Nathan knew he wanted to spend every second with her. โ€œI was obsessed. We had many long conversations over the phone and I would send her love letters in the post,โ€ he says, looking at her adoringly.

Natalie couldnโ€™t resist the declarations of devotion (which sheโ€™s kept in a suitcase for two decades). โ€œHe was very persistent and I fell hard,โ€ she explains.

Yet both of their parents were concerned about them rushing into marriage โ€“ they were young and had the rest of their lives for that. But everything changed in 1997. Nathanโ€™s parents were involved in a serious car accident in January where he lost two sisters. โ€œWhen someone close to you dies in shocking circumstances, it gives you a new perspective,โ€ says Natalie. โ€œAfter that, we knew we always wanted to be together, and we were married 10 months later.โ€

After 21 years of marriage, the arrival of four sons (Finn, 15, Jude, 13, Milo, 10, and Iggy, seven) and a blue staffy named Luna, the couple credits their shared sense of purpose for getting them through the tough times. โ€œOur faith is a big component in our relationship,โ€ says Nathan, who is an ordained Christian minister. โ€œ[As a couple], we have a purpose. Love is a decision more than a feeling. Love opens up your future.โ€

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Robyn Fay-Perkins, 35, Photo Editor, and Matt Perkins, 42, Social Media Manager

Robyn and Mattโ€™s love story reads like a Hollywood rom-com script. Seven years ago, their paths collided en route to Switzerland for a work trip. The dramatic twist? Robynโ€™s phobia of flying. โ€œI tried to play it really cool when I sat down next to Matt on the plane, but I was shaking and sweating,โ€ she remembers. โ€œMaybe even crying.โ€

Picking up on Robynโ€™s fear, Matt โ€œwas my angelโ€, and kept her calm from take-off to landing. Their connection grew during the 10-day trip, and after returning to Australia and parting ways, the distance felt unbearable. โ€œComing back and not being together, I felt the pang of separation,โ€ Matt explains. โ€œIt was like I couldnโ€™t live without him,โ€ agrees Robyn. โ€œBeing with Matt just felt right. I could be myself with him โ€“ I didnโ€™t have to pretend.โ€

Despite clearly being meant for each other, new divorcee Robyn kept searching for a sign, as all rom-com heroines do. When they moved in together after 10 months, Robyn noticed Mattโ€™s knife holder in the kitchen was missing a carving knife โ€“ heโ€™d lost it years earlier. As fate would have it, she had that exact knife, and it fits perfectly in Mattโ€™s holder. Cue fireworks.

Four years of marriage and two little boys later, Matt still swoons when he looks at Robyn. โ€œShe is fire and energy. Sunshine pours out of her,โ€ he says. โ€œI love that weโ€™re still creating new memories together.โ€

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