The Ultimate Guide To The Best Sex Toys For Women

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Sex toys have been a part of our life since the beginning of civilisation. In fact, the first known dildo dates back to the paleolithic era. Dildos carved out of polished stone or bone were widely discovered amongst personal artifacts like sewing needles and combs. There’s even a rumour that Cleopatra invented the first vibrator out of a hollowed-out gourd filled with angry bees!

Since the 1800s, doctors were treating female ‘hysteria’ with orgasms. Anything from a headache, fatigue, irritability, depression, anxiety and more could be cured with a discreet one-hour visit to the doctor’s office. A pelvic massage from your GP would induce the cure-all “hysterical paroxysm” (orgasm).

Dr Mortimer Granville invented the first vibrator in 1883.  It only took 5 minutes to achieve ‘paroxysm’, freeing up doctors’ time and saving their hands from RSI. By 1899, vibrators were advertised as an essential home appliance. In fact, they were the fifth electric appliance General Electric released into the market (after the kettle, toaster, sewing machine and fan).

These days, sex toys are no longer considered a cure for man-splained “hysteria”. 

In 2023, we’re not just limited to vibrators and dildos—there are multitudes of products on offer (like oral sex simulators, discreet bullet vibrators, and even g-spot vibrators), so it’s best to do some exploring online, read reviews and determine which one might work best for you. And who says we need to be limited to just one?

Here are our picks of the best sex toys available in Australia right now.

Best Sex Toys For Women: Oral Sex Simulators

Far from your average vibrator, oral sex simulators do exactly as it sounds: they simulate the feeling of oral sex.

There are actually two different types of oral sex simulators available: if you have a partner to play with, some sex toys can be attached to the tongue to enhance the oral sex experience.  

For solo play, there are vibrators for women specifically designed to mimic oral sensation.



LELO Ora 3 Clitoral Massager

$249 at CurrentBody.

Say hello to the world’s most intuitive oral sex simulator. With PreMotion Technology, the ORA 3 sex toy has a precise “pleasure nub” that works by vibrating and rotating, mimicking the movements of a tongue.

With 12 different vibration settings to suit your preferences, this oral sex simulator is ergonomically designed, and made with premium, extra-soft silicone for a smooth touch.

Key features:

  • 12 vibration settings
  • Precise “pleasure nub” mimicks tongue movements
  • Premium, soft silicone


Red Hot Rechargeable Silicone Flickering Tongue Vibrator

$89.95 at Lovehoney.

This flickering tongue vibrator offers pinpoint precision anywhere you wish. Crafted from soft silicone with three speeds and seven vibrations settings, it’s perfect for foreplay or solo use.

Key features:

  • Three speeds, seven vibration modes
  • Soft silicone
  • Waterproof level: splashproof


Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator

$169.95 at Lovehoney.

With its revolutionary Pleasure Air Technology that perfectly balances pulsating and massaging, Womanizer’s Clitoral Stimulators have become firm favourites of clitoris owners everywhere.

Key features:

  • Six levels of intensity
  • Waterproof level: Submergible
  • Ideal for edging and solo play

Best Sex Toys For Women: G-Spot Vibrators

If you are trying to learn the elusive art of female ejaculation (more commonly known as squirting), then g-spot vibrators are the sex toys to try.

These curved vibrators have a bulbous head that will stimulate the sometimes hard to reach G-spot and take your orgasms to the next level.

Combine a g-spot vibrator with clitoral stimulation and you’ll be shooting off into space. 



The Double Entrendre

$95 at Frenchie.

Not one but two motors power this little vibrator with four speeds and six pleasure modes, for maximum pleasure. The flexible and bendable design in soft silicone makes it ideal for both solo and couples play, stimulating both internally and externally.

Key features:

  • Flexible design for comfortable internal stimulation
  • Four speeds, six vibration settings
  • IPX6 waterproof


Luxe Lillie Slim 7.4″ G Spot Vibrator

$76.99 at WildSecrets

Elegant and slim this G-spot vibrator bends and flexes to the body for easy exploration and pleasure. The slightly ribbed and angular tip combined with 10 vibration functions only enhances an already intense orgasm experience.

Key features:

  • 10 vibration settings
  • Ribbed tip for extra pleasure
  • Waterproof level: splashproof

Best Sex Toys For Women: Bullet Vibrators

A staple sex toy in Australia, the pocket rocket has earned its place in the clitoral vibrator Hall of Fame. Petite (usually 7.5cm – 13cm long), inexpensive and versatile, this is a great way to start your sex toy journey.  

With options that can be disguised as a necklace, lipstick or key charm these babies are so discreet you can take them anywhere and everywhere.



Mantric Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator

$79.95 at Lovehoney.

Perfect for beginners, this bullet vibrator is 100% waterproof so you can explore new levels of pleasure from the bedroom to the shower and any aquatic play you desire.

Key features:

  • Three intensity levels, seven vibration settings
  • 100% waterproof
  • Tapered tip for pinpoint or widespread sensation


Le Wand Chrome Vibrating Necklace

$169.95 at JouJou

Can’t leave home without your vibrator? This sleek necklace is for you. A vibrator in disguise, what this vibrator lacks in size it makes up for in power and of course it’s pleasure-on-demand capability.

Key features:

  • 100% body-safe stainless steel
  • Eight vibration settings
  • Up to 3 hours use time per charge

Best Sex Toys For Women: Vibrating Eggs

A sex toy growing in popularity, this is a small egg-shaped vibrator (similar to the bullet). You can easily slip this sex toy inside you and enjoy some kinky fun while you are out and about.

 Make sure you choose an egg with a remote control so you enjoy being at your partner’s mercy, with no idea when they will send you some sneaky vibration patterns.



ROMP Cello Rechargeable Vibrating Egg

$59.95 at Lovehoney

Feeling a little inspired after watching Fifty Shades Of Grey? These eggs will not only induce pleasure with four vibration patterns and five intensity levels, but can also help strengthen your pelvic floor.

Key features:

  • Four vibration patterns, five intensity levels
  • Waterproof level: submersible
  • Remote control operated

Best Sex Toys For Women: Traditional Vibrators

If you are ready for something bigger than a bullet, try the traditional vibrator for a longer, girthier version of the sex toy. Classic vibrators have a straight, slim, elegant shape and come in a range of tasteful colours and textures (think smooth, textured or ribbed).  

These sex toys for women are designed for inserting inside you (but still feel great against your clit). Usually around 4-8 inches long, this is Goldilocks’ choice (not too big, not too small, just right!).



Elixir Play Ruby

$119.95 at Myer

This ultra-soft massager will move and bend with your body whether you’re exploring internally or externally. The bulbous tip is great for hitting the G-spot while 10 vibration modes enhance stimulation.

Key features:

  • 10 vibration settings
  • Ultra soft silicone


Power Play 7 Function Classic Vibrator 6 Inch

$44.95 at Lovehoney

A true classic, this rounded tip vibrator features a softly waved shaft that only enhances the vibrations, resulting in a dizzying state of pleasure.

Key features:

  • Three speeds, four vibration settings
  • Waterproof level: submersible

Best Sex Toys For Women: Rabbit Vibrators

When these were invented, Christmas came early for women everywhere.

Rabbit vibrators provide clitoral stimulation while round (and sometimes rotating) shafts and massaging pearls vibrate intense pleasure to your g-spot and vagina.

This is the gold standard, loved by women worldwide because they take pleasure to the next level with very little effort.



Elixir Play Amethyst

$139.95 at THE ICONIC

Dual motors deliver twice the power with this rabbit vibrator that targets both internal and external erogenous zones simultaneously for a mind-blowing orgasm. The smooth, flat bulbs deliver widespread and intense vibration for unrelenting satisfaction.

Key features:

  • Two motors for powerful vibration
  • Two hour battery life between charges


Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

$139.95 at Lovehoney.

Reviewers claim this dual-motor rabbit resulted in “the most powerful orgasms they’ve ever had”. If that doesn’t convince you, the flexible pinpoint pleasure ears and vibrating shaft should do the trick.

Key features:

  •  15 speeds and patterns
  • Dual motors for powerful pleasure
  • Thick, flexible ears for clitoral stimulation

What are the different types of dildos for women?

Different strokes for different folks! There is not one single ‘best’ dildo but luckily, we have access to such a huge range of these types of sex toys, so you should be able to find one that suits you

Realistic Dildos

Looks and feels like the real thing (including the veins, balls and everything!!).  These have a suction cup base for handsfree fun and can also be used with a strap-on.  

Vibrating Dildos

These hybrids will give you the best of both worlds for a pleasure-packed sex life.    

Glass Dildos

These almost fall into the art category as a one-of-a-kind sculptures that are in your secret stash.  These are rigid and super sensitive to temperature, so you can enjoy hot and cold sensations that don’t compare to any other sex toy.

Double Ended

Exactly as the name sounds, this can be shared in a steamy session or used for double penetration.  A double penetration dildo is usually U shaped.

Anal Dildos

These are a wide range of anal dildos that can move the party to the back door.  There is an anal dildo out there that every individual will love and is tailored to suit their entry level.  Remember, if you are new to anal, start small and use lots of lube.

G-spot dildos

In a variety of textures, shapes and sizes the G-spot dildo has a curved tip to stimulate that mysterious G-spot.

Giant dildos

The big kahuna – extra-long and thick, don’t try this one at home unless you are an experienced dildo user.  Work your way up to these gradually.

What are the different types of discreet sex toys for women?

Discreet means different things to different people.  Keeping your sex toy collection under wraps can be achieved with camouflage, small-sized toys and whisper-quiet vibrators.


If your sex toys blend in with everyday items, you can be the queen of discreet.  The Womanizer 2Go clitoral vibrator looks just like a lipstick. Your Hitachi magic wand can be explained away as a personal massager for your sore shoulder (this excuse will only work on naive people though).

For something that you can leave lying around the Shiri Zinn iScream, and Shiri Zinn cupcakes look the part with a vibrator hidden inside.  If you always want to keep your vibrator handy, then the Vesper Vibe doubles as an elegant pendant and mini vibrator.

Peace and quiet

Quiet vibrators are a godsend.  If you don’t want your entire household hearing your sex toys it pays to invest in the high-end luxury brands.  They use high-tech motors which are much quieter. There quite a few luxury brands on the market. A few you could check out are: Lelo, We-Vibe and Crave.

What types of sex toys are there for couples?

The fun factor always increases when you have company.  There are some fantastic interactive sex toys to include your significant other in your playtime, or you can just include each other when you play with your existing toys.  If he wants his own toys, Japanese brand Tenga has a great range of toys for men and couples.

Interactive couples toys

The most well-known sex toy in the market for couples’ play is the we-vibe.  Worn by her, this toy has a G-spot vibrator and clitoral stimulator. Your partner can control the vibrations via a mobile phone app or remote control.  This could be fun to wear out to dinner or to the shops, you will never know which one its ten vibration modes is going to hit you next (or where). You can also keep this inside you for intercourse to spice things up.  Just make sure you have inserted it correctly as there is nothing more annoying than it is slipping out halfway through.

When you are playing games and giving your partner full control, connectivity with most of the toys can be an issue.  Try to use apps that don’t rely on Bluetooth if you can because Bluetooth connectivity can be a big pain (and can change the mood from frisky to frustrated in no time).  If your partner loves watching cam-models, Lovense has a range of different toys that he can control from afar (as happens on some of the live cam sites) with powerful vibrations and good battery life.

Penis Rings

Of course, penis rings are another great choice for both parties to be worn during intercourse for extra clitoral stimulation for her, and to make things more enjoyable for him.

Ben wa balls

For a bit of stimulation with the bonus of strengthening up the Kegel muscles inserting some vibrating (or non-vibrating) ben wa balls can be a good foreplay option.

Sex Furniture

If you want to enjoy more different sex positions, then Wedge and Ramp sex furniture is a tool that you can use to help give a bit more support. As for recommending which is the best toy for couples, again it’s all about personal choice.  No matter what your experience, keep reading reviews to ensure your sex toys are of reasonable quality.

Different types of anal sex toys

There are loads of anal sex toys available. The most common ones are anal beads and butt plugs.  It’s important to choose a toy that matches your experience level and always start small.  

Remember, the more lube the better.  Most anal lubes are silicone-based, which is a thicker, longer-lasting lubricant. The only downside is that silicone lubricant cannot be used with silicone toys or latex condoms. To be safe, choose a water-based lube and make sure that you reapply it often.

Anal beads

Also known as anal pearls, these are chains of beads in varying sizes that you or your partner insert into your anus during foreplay or sex.  They give incredible sensations and are meant to be slowly removed at climax for intense, full body orgasms.

Anal Training Kits

These are a great idea for beginners to prepare yourself for anal sex.  They usually consist of butt plugs that increase in size. Start with the smallest one and work your way up as you become comfortable.

Butt Plugs

These bulb-shaped sex toys are inserted into the anus and a designed to be worn for a short time before sex.  These also stretch you out before anal play. There are so many to choose from, remember to start small if you are a beginner.

Anal Vibrators

Special vibrators designed for anal play for more stimulation.  Some come with extra perks like a penis ring for him.

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